I will finish up my series on the Texas Standard Possession order with a discussion on the holiday visits. These holidays typically include Spring Break, Thanksgiving and Christmas. Other “holidays” can include Father’s day, Mother’s day, children’s birthdays, Halloween, 4th of July, etc… However, the standard is the first three.
I do not typically run into many issues with Holiday visits in my practice as they are pretty self explanatory. They typically begin at the time the child is dismissed from school and end at 6:00 p.m. on the day before school and follow an odd and even year pattern.
I sometimes get asked why the possessions end at 6:00 p.m. and not on the following Monday morning as a standard weekend may end. The only answer I can provide is that it is designed for the child to be able to unwind after the holiday and get back into the school routine prior to returning to school. This is not to say that your order cannot say something different, this is just the standard language in Texas.
The pickup time “when the child is dismissed from school” used to be a source of controversy, especially around Thanksgiving. Many schools would let out for the week of Thanksgiving which is easy to follow, but they would also schedule a teacher day or in-service day the Friday before the holiday week. The confusion arose over whether this was actually the beginning of the holiday or not. The Texas legislature recently fixed that problem by confirming that the in-service day was indeed the beginning of the “holiday”.
That is about all I have on the Texas standard possession order and holidays. If my readers have some general comments or questions, I would be happy to answer them under the comments section.
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So if the child is under 3 and not in school but the papers so my ex can pick her up when school gets out on his days of the weekend…. can he… She isn’t in school or of school age so does school apply to her?
If an order designates that a parent picks up after school or when school lets out for a holiday, and the child is not school age, then you simply follow the school calendar for the public school the child would attend if in school. If the elementary school they would attend lets out at 3:00 p.m. then the pickup time is 3:00 p.m. If the holiday for the school district is the Wednesday before thanksgiving then that is when the pickup is for purposes of the thanksgiving holidays. The same applies to the rest of the holidays.
But does he have the right to pick her up at daycare?
But does he have the right to pick her up at daycare?
I have a holiday general question for you that I am not clear on and many others may be confused as well…
My standard papers state the noncustodial parent will get my child this year for Christmas (even numbered). The “christmas break holiday” is to begin on such and such date the child is dismissed from school and will end on December 28th at 6 pm. Easy enough to understand… my child will be allowed to spend almost 2 weeks with the noncustodial parent.
Now, here is where the confusion comes in. The noncustodial parent voiced to me last night that he does not wish to have my child the full two weeks. He would like to have him both weekends that are jammed into this allotted time, back to back weekends, but not the full allotted time frame painted out for him. Do I have to abide to his request and rearrange my holiday break around him OR when the noncustodial parent returns my child, is he basically forfeiting the remainder of his allotted time– like if he were to return my child on a Saturday afternoon vs. at 6pm on Sunday on his regular weekend schedule?
I am so confused and do not want to be in contempt or refuse my child visitation, however, I do not see it fair to cancel my “out of town” plans to accommodate his wants– I would just prefer to take my child with me out of town because I will not be back into town before the 2nd weekend he has requested to have my child available for pick up.
The non-custodial parent’s visitation starts when the school is dismissed for Christmas and ends at noon on December 28, 2010. You are responsible for providing the child for visitation when school lets out. If the non-custodial parent brings the child home early then they have effectively ended their visitation as you are not under a court order to provide the child at any other time than when school lets out. In your case, if the child is brought back that weekend, under a standard visitation order, you are not required to provide the child again for visitation until January 7th (first Friday of the month), after the Christmas holiday.
It is always best to work out arrangements by agreement in these situations. Perhaps additional time when you get back in town or something. Try to be reasonable.
I hope I answered your question.
My question refers to Halloween. It falls on a Monday this yr and I would like to take my stepson trick or treating. Does halloween fall under the definition of a federal, state, or local holiday so that we could at least take him trick or treating early before taking back at six or must we give him back on sunday at 6? Also, if his mother agrees to letting us have him via text, can she change her mind? For example, we pick him up on friday and ask to keep him til monday night, she says ok but sunday comes round and she wants him back at 6…
How does holiday, spring and summer visitation apply to children under 3? we have step ups in our order and the NCP does not have overnights until 18 months old and I do not see where there is anything lined out for holiday and summer posessions before my daughter turns 18 months
Suzanna, your order controls. There is no set standard for children under three, just guidelines. If there are not provisions in your order dealing with the holidays then you may need to get an attorney and modify your order so there is no confusion.