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is it legal to record telephone conversations or intercept emails?

Monday, January 10th, 2011

A very common question in my practice is whether it is legal for a person to record telephone conversations or intercept emails from their spouse in a divorce.  As with most other areas of law, there are no hard and fast answers to every factual scenario only general guidelines.  I will start by addressing the recording of telephone conversations.

In Texas you can record a telephone conversation as long as one of the parties on the line knows they are being recorded.  That means you can record your conversation with your spouse because you know that you are being recorded.  You cannot record telephone conversations between two people if they do not know they are being recorded.  For instance, you cannot record your spouse’s conversation with their lover or sister or whatever.  That is wiretapping and can get you into some serious criminal trouble.

The next question that typically arises is whether you can record your wife or husband’s telephone conversation with your child? The general answer is yes.  Since a child is not old enough to consent to being recorded, the parent can consent for them.  If the parent consents to recording the conversation between the child and the other parent, then at least one party on the line knows they are being recorded.

As I stated above, however, these are general guidelines as every case is factually different.  You should always consult with a lawyer before embarking on a telephone recording campaign.  Factors such as phone calls to other states or out of the country could take this to a whole new level.  Be careful.  What is legal in Texas may not be legal in Arizona and if you are recording a conversation between a phone in Texas and a phone in Arizona you could open yourself up to criminal liability in Arizona.

The next topic is whether it is legal to intercept emails from your spouse.  Obviously you are not a party to the emails, otherwise you would have a copy.  This situation arises when you are snooping through your spouse’s email account.  Things get a little more dicey here.  It usually boils down to the spouse’s expectation of privacy and the availability of the email program and passwords, meaning was it a computer that everyone had access to in the house, was the password readily available, etc… No expectation of privacy then they become fair game, or do they?  There is a case out of Michigan where a husband was checking his wife’s gmail account from their home computer and she kept her passwords right next to the computer.  Did she have any expectation of privacy? Doesn’t sound like it.  However, that did not stop the District Attorney’s office from filing charges on him.  You can read more about this case in this MSNBC article.  What if you set up the spouse’s email software to forward you all emails they receive?  You may want to read this case on arstechnica.com.  What about key tracking software that sends a report of what was typed?  There is no easy answer to these questions.

Is it legal to record telephone conversations?  Sometimes.   Is it legal to intercept emails?  Maybe.  Consult a lawyer and be careful.  That is the best advise I can give.

divorce and facebook

Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010

I posted an article on this blog some time ago about separating in Texas and online considerations.  There is a new article on CNN.com that revisits this issue entitled Divorce attorneys catching cheaters on Facebook.  We all know people who are separated and getting a divorce, or someone in the midst of a custody battle and who have social networking profiles.  As a divorce attorney there is a wealth of information from these sources.  I have case after case with client’s sending me Facebook pages depicting their spouse in a negative light.

In addition to an endless source of information, sites like Facebook have opened the door to those old flames from high school or college and provide the catalyst needed to cheat.

The common response to protecting yourself from the ex-spouse is to “unfriend” them.  I am no Facebook expert, but simply unfriending them is not enough.  Facebook allows friends and friends of friends to link up in an endless chain of contacts.  Have you ever looked at the “suggested friends” list on the side panel?  Ever wondered how on earth they find the people listed?  I do.  It is unbelievable how powerful these systems are.

The point is, linking with one of the friends or the friend of a friend of an ex may be enough to land you in a nasty divorce or other lawsuit.  Don’t try to trick the system, keep your private information private.

I am not condoning cheating, or any other type of behavior, but I am saying that you need to be aware of your privacy in an increasingly electronic world.  People are watching you whether you think they are or not.  As discussed in the CNN article, websites such as flowtown.com are being used to monitor your every action.  If that doesn’t work, there is a new private investigator out there.  The electronic PI.

divorce and debts – get my name off!

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

A very common issue that arises in Texas divorces is removing a parties name from a joint debt.  This can arise in the form of a jointly owned automobile, home, or a simple credit card.

The common question is “how do I get my name off that debt”?

The simple answer is you cannot.  A Texas divorce judge does not have the power to affect a creditor’s rights in collecting from whomever is listed on that debt.  Imagine if a judge in Texas could change the names on a jointly held credit card of a company in New York.  A Texas judge does not have that authority.

In the case of a jointly owned automobile or home, the only way to clear a name off the debt is to either get the loan company to agree to do so (fat chance), sell the item and buy something new, or refinance the home or car in question.  If none of these are an option, then you are most likely stuck with your name or your ex’s name on the loan or credit card.

With credit cards, the same goes as above.  You can ask the credit card to remove one parties name or, to be safe, you can pay the debt yourself.

So the next question is “can’t I get the judge to order them to pay the bill?”

Yes you can, and a Texas Divorce Court has the authority to order one party or the other to pay it.  What you have to understand, however, is that does not change the fact that both parties names are still on the debt.  If the party ordered to pay defaults on payment, the creditors are going to seek payment from BOTH parties regardless of what the order says.

Your only recourse in that situation is to ask the divorce Court to enforce their order that the party pay that specific debt.  In Texas, even if you prevail, the judge cannot put someone in jail for failure to pay a debt so the best you could hope for is a judgment against the other party.  A judgment is not worth much for someone that has nothing.  Collecting a judgment in Texas is a tough proposition.

The result is that you are left with trashed credit or you are out the money to pay the debt that the other side was ordered to pay.

The moral to the story is, if you are concerned about your credit, pay the bill.  If it is a house or car, refinance or sell it because a divorce Court cannot affect a creditor’s right to collect their debts.