Posts Tagged ‘divorce process’

what to look for when hiring a divorce or family Law attorney

Friday, May 21st, 2010

When hiring a divorce lawyer, here are a few things you should look for:

  1. Experience – Look for an attorney who dedicates their practice to divorces, child custody, or family law.  A lawyer who spends all their time on one subject typically is more knowledgeable than an attorney who practices many different areas of law.
  2. Specialization – Does the lawyer have to be “specialized” in Family Law to be a good attorney.  Absolutely not.  There are thousands upon thousands of excellent lawyers who are not recognized as “specialized”.  In Texas it is called “Board Certified”.  In my personal experiences, some of the best lawyers are not board certified and some of the worst lawyers I have ever dealt with are.  It really makes no difference except in cost.
  3. Research online/references – Read online reviews on Avvo.com or other similar website or ask for references from the attorney.
  4. Meet the Lawyer – Many times you will know right away whether you can work with a person or not.  Rely on your instincts.  If you are not comfortable in the first meeting, chances are you will never be comfortable.  How well do you communicate with them?  Do they listen or are they just trying to sell you something?
  5. Man or Woman – I think this is overrated.  I work equally hard for men or women and try to achieve the best possible results.  I think it is the same for most attorneys.  Some attorneys will market themselves as a “father’s lawyer” or “mother’s lawyer” but I would bet they have just as many clients of the opposite sex.
  6. What do they do when not handling divorce cases – Do they share their knowledge with others, or do they only share information when paid?  Do they have a blog?  Do they try to promote the practice of law by helping others?  You can get a good idea about your lawyer with a little research.
  7. Determine the fee structure – Do they offer flat fees or do they only work on retainers?  Many cases can be resolved in a flat fee system.  If they do not offer flat fees, and your case is relatively simple, consider finding a lawyer who will offer a flat fee.

This is not an all inclusive list of the things to look for when hiring a divorce lawyer, but it gives you something to think about and a good place to start.

divorce and debts – get my name off!

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

A very common issue that arises in Texas divorces is removing a parties name from a joint debt.  This can arise in the form of a jointly owned automobile, home, or a simple credit card.

The common question is “how do I get my name off that debt”?

The simple answer is you cannot.  A Texas divorce judge does not have the power to affect a creditor’s rights in collecting from whomever is listed on that debt.  Imagine if a judge in Texas could change the names on a jointly held credit card of a company in New York.  A Texas judge does not have that authority.

In the case of a jointly owned automobile or home, the only way to clear a name off the debt is to either get the loan company to agree to do so (fat chance), sell the item and buy something new, or refinance the home or car in question.  If none of these are an option, then you are most likely stuck with your name or your ex’s name on the loan or credit card.

With credit cards, the same goes as above.  You can ask the credit card to remove one parties name or, to be safe, you can pay the debt yourself.

So the next question is “can’t I get the judge to order them to pay the bill?”

Yes you can, and a Texas Divorce Court has the authority to order one party or the other to pay it.  What you have to understand, however, is that does not change the fact that both parties names are still on the debt.  If the party ordered to pay defaults on payment, the creditors are going to seek payment from BOTH parties regardless of what the order says.

Your only recourse in that situation is to ask the divorce Court to enforce their order that the party pay that specific debt.  In Texas, even if you prevail, the judge cannot put someone in jail for failure to pay a debt so the best you could hope for is a judgment against the other party.  A judgment is not worth much for someone that has nothing.  Collecting a judgment in Texas is a tough proposition.

The result is that you are left with trashed credit or you are out the money to pay the debt that the other side was ordered to pay.

The moral to the story is, if you are concerned about your credit, pay the bill.  If it is a house or car, refinance or sell it because a divorce Court cannot affect a creditor’s right to collect their debts.

how do I serve someone in a Texas divorce if I do not know where they are?

Thursday, April 29th, 2010

Many times a person will want to file for divorce in Texas, but they do not know where their spouse is and do not know how to serve them. Below are your options.

1. Search, Search, Search
First you must exercise due diligence in locating them. Due diligence means using any means you can to find them. Call family and friends, perform an internet search on them or their family members, look in phone books, etc… You have to do everything you reasonably can to find them. I do not think you are required to hire a private investigator, but some courts may require this.
2. Service by Publication
Service by publication is basically a newspaper add in a newspaper stating that you have sued someone. It is designed with the thought that the person will read the newspaper and then be put on notice. This form of service must be used in divorces with property and/or children.
3. Service by Posting
If there are no children of the marriage, and no property to divide, you can serve someone by “posting”. Posting is placing the petition for divorce on the courthouse steps. Again, this is designed with the idea that the person would see it and have notice of the suit. You will need some extra documents in this type of divorce so consult an attorney for assistance.
4. Do they really get notice?
Obviously under each of the above service styles (publication and posting) the person will most likely not get notice. However, the Courts and the legislature have said that this is sufficient notice of the pending lawsuit to satisfy the court that they have been “served”. To qualify for this type of service you must show the court that you exhausted all means under Section 1.  If you can do this, the court will deem that service and you can proceed with the Texas divorce.