Posts Tagged ‘holidays’

father’s day visitation in Texas

Tuesday, May 18th, 2010

I love this time of year.   This kids are almost out of school, swimming pools are opening and fun vacations are coming up.  What does that mean for you?

If you are a father, then the Father’s Day holiday is rapidly approaching.  In looking at the calendar for this year, Father’s Day will fall on a standard visitation weekend.  If dad is the one with standard visitation, then it is his weekend anyway because it is the third Friday of the month.

If mom has standard visitation, even though it is a third Friday, she will not exercise that weekend’s visitation as it is a time for a father and child and their holiday trumps mom’s period of possession.

Typically the visitation for a father on Father’s Day begins at 6:00 p.m. on Friday and ends that Sunday at 6:00 p.m.  However, always check your order for the exact times that your visitation begins and ends as they may begin when school is dismissed and end when school resumes.  Your order will dictate the pick up and drop off times for holiday visitation or your weekend period of possession, whichever is applicable.

If you are asking yourself why I am discussing weekend visitation in the summer, then perhaps you should review my post on weekend periods of possession as they last throughout the year under a standard visitation order.

It is also important to note that under a standard visitation order Father’s Day weekend trumps summer weekends or summer extended periods of possession chosen by the mother.  Basically it trumps everything.

It is a great time to be a dad as y’all get the whole weekend to yourself.  Take a trip to Six Flags, go for a bike ride, or just hang out at the house and watch a movie. The most important part is to spend time with your kids.  Enjoy!

texas standard possession order de-mystified – holiday possessions

Friday, April 23rd, 2010

I will finish up my series on the Texas Standard Possession order with a discussion on the holiday visits.  These holidays typically include Spring Break, Thanksgiving and Christmas.  Other “holidays” can include Father’s day, Mother’s day, children’s birthdays, Halloween, 4th of July, etc…  However, the standard is the first three.

I do not typically run into many issues with Holiday visits in my practice as they are pretty self explanatory.  They typically begin at the time the child is dismissed from school and end at 6:00 p.m. on the day before school and follow an odd and even year pattern.

I sometimes get asked why the possessions end at 6:00 p.m. and not on the following Monday morning as a standard weekend may end.  The only answer I can provide is that it is designed for the child to be able to unwind after the holiday and get back into the school routine prior to returning to school.  This is not to say that your order cannot say something different, this is just the standard language in Texas.

The pickup time “when the child is dismissed from school” used to be a source of controversy, especially around Thanksgiving.  Many schools would let out for the week of Thanksgiving which is easy to follow, but they would also schedule a teacher day or in-service day the Friday before the holiday week.  The confusion arose over whether this was actually the beginning of the holiday or not.  The Texas legislature recently fixed that problem by confirming that the in-service day was indeed the beginning of the “holiday”.

That is about all I have on the Texas standard possession order and holidays.  If my readers have some general comments or questions, I would be happy to answer them under the comments section.

texas standard possession order de-mystified – thursday possession

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

While the weekend possessions of a Texas Standard Possession Order are the backbone of visitation in Texas and widely understood, Thursday periods of possession are many times completely misunderstood.

Probably the most misunderstood part of the Thursday possession is when it occurs. While the weekend possessions follow essentially an every other weekend schedule, Thursday visitations under the Texas Standard Possession Order occur every week during the school term. This means that they DO NOT occur during the summer. If the child concerned is not in school, then it follows the school term for district in which the child would be enrolled if in school. For instance if the child is in daycare in Plano and lives in Plano, then the Plano Independent School District calendar would control. (more…)