Posts Tagged ‘spouses’

separating in Texas and online considerations

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009
If you are separated from your spouse or considering separation, I have attached a great article about how to separate your online life.  From a legal perspective, this article has some good advise, most specifically in regard to passwords.

The majority of divorcing people I deal with in my practice have web-based email such as Yahoo, Gmail or Hotmail.  If you forget your passwords for those accounts there are certain questions you can answer to change the password.  Problem is, your ex may know the answer to those questions and can then change the password giving them access to all your personal emails.  Be careful with this and enjoy the following article:

How to break up in an online world—and avoid e-stalkers – Ars Technica

Bottom line, just as you would take precautions with your bank accounts, credit cards, etc… you should do the same with your online identity.  Revisit your “secret” questions, your passwords and any other items you may have shared with your spouse.[cleanarchivesreloaded]

same sex marriage in Texas

Wednesday, August 12th, 2009

I found an interesting blurb in a Texas case on gay marriage. You can find it in my discussion board here.

Basically, a wife was allowed to set aside divorce decree and declare the marriage void as a “same-sex marriage,” where the evidence showed that husband was formerly a female.  That made the marriage between two females and rendered it void against public policy.

The Court stated that “A Texas court has no more power to issue a divorce decree for a same-sex marriage than it does to administer the estate of a living person.”

This is a very antiquated view of the situation, and as you can see by my other posts, the courts are beginning to fight back on the prohibition against gay or same sex marriages.